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So, I have realized that I am becoming more negative lately. Not depressive, or PMSish, just complaining and noticing the bad over the good. For example, I would grouch at my husband for making a mess, but not thank him for watching the kids for me while I took a nap. I would complain to a friend about how much work it is to take care of my boys, but not mention how much I love their hugs and kisses or how smart they are.
I’ve been here before and I know its a slippery slope. Being negative leads to being critical of everything and everybody. It darkens the sky and everyone’s mood and eventually becomes a poison that sickens you (and others). So, my plan is to catch myself before I go too far. I will look for the roses and then stop and smell them. Whenever I catch myself wanting to complain or criticize, I will find something good.
For example, instead of groaning that it is so so hot, I will say that I am so so glad we have AC and some otter pops in the freezer.
Count your blessings they say, and you will be surprised how many you have. Here are a few of these roses I have noticed:
- Sister Ramos is so awesome. She is a great example to me, and so kind.
- Being silly with kids is fun, especially when they get your jokes
- I love being sucked into a great novel, one that you can’t put down until its done.
- I love my husband and my kids more than anything in the world!
- Answers to prayers
- I love the free time I get when both kids are napping.
- My wedding ring makes me smile. I still think it is so pretty.
- My husband taught my son to pic flowers and bring them to me. That would make anyone feel special.
- More to come
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